03 February 2019

LOVE: SELFLESSLY PROVIDES


Good Evening Friends!

I pray you have had a great day and weekend
It is Super Bowl Sunday here in the US – basically another national holiday for most of us
My guys are all upstairs, watching the game, eating food and having drinks
I will join them in a few minutes. But first I had to post this message.
And yes, I am spending one more day on this concept of STORGE/FAMILY LOVE
It is the love which has been manifesting in my home all weekend.

It is a blessing having three sons.
Nothing gives me greater joy than when I hear what I hear tonight.
I am downstairs in my room typing away
And they are laughing and conversing and just enjoying the company of one another.
That joy will only be multiplied once any of them gets married and our family expands.

I once asked my middle son – quite some time ago – when he was going to start dating
His response was shocking as he looked me square in my eyes and said, ‘Mom, I am a selfish being. I like to spend my time the way I want to spend my time; I like to spend my money the way I want to spend my money and I am not willing to compromise right now. So, why get into a relationship and frustrate someone and have them frustrate me?”
I was completely taken aback at his declaration – 
However, I had to give him give points for being honest & candid

YET – the truth of the matter is that he is anything but selfish
He is one of the most generous and responsible people I know.
Without intending to do so, he has modeled my love message for today.
He possesses a love which selflessly looks toward the needs of others.

NOW – do I believe he still likes to spend his time & money the way he desires? YES!
HOWEVER – he lovingly places those desires second when he recognizes a greater need.

He is a pretty special man!
·         He understands the importance of a man looking after his own family: Taking to heart [even if unconsciously] that one who does not provide for his own family is worse than an infidel [I Timothy 5:8]
·         He demonstrates a love which lays down personal desires: He repeatedly esteems others more than himself. [Philippians 2:3]
·         He puts action behind his love: He embodies Philippians 2:4 which reminds and encourages believers: ‘Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.’

All of these qualities are so important in a family
It demonstrates how LOVE SELFLESSLY PROVIDES

I am truly blessed … and so very thankful

Praying You Have a Blessed Evening and Week!
Wishing You Much Love …

“A new command I give you; Love one another.
As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” John 13:34

01 February 2019

LOVE: WHILE YOU CAN ...


Good Morning Friends

I pray your day is off to a great start – February 1, 2019
I continually find myself saying, ‘The older I get, the faster it goes’
However, I think it might be time for me to adopt a new saying when time passing:
‘Thank You God for the time; help me make the rest count’

I was going to move off our focus on STORGE/FAMILY LOVE
However, I believe I am going to spend one more day there – TODAY
WHY? Because it is so important to … LOVE WHILE YOU CAN

My cousin passed away yesterday morning; he was fifty-one years old. I think that is young. However, I might feel that way because he was only three years older than me. We were all more like siblings than cousins when we were growing up. He called my mom his second mom. My last contact with him before New Year’s Day was in December when he told me he would be coming to see her soon. He truly loved her. Yet, even with all his love for her, he was not able to make that last visit.

Tomorrow is not promised to any of us – the next moment is not promised to any of us
That is why it is important to – LOVE WHILE YOU CAN
Many people have been commenting on my cousin’s amazing smile.
And he did have an absolutely amazing smile!
That glint in his eye, the crinkle of his nose and then there was that dimple on his cheek.
His smile was infectious and you could not help but smiling yourself in response.

But why share this with my online friends who did not know him?
It is important to focus on loving family while you can & letting them know.
Family love [and love in general] is a precious gift – but one which can easily be taken for granted.

Therefore, it is important to be intentional about loving and expressing love
Take time to appreciate the little things that you love about people – and let them know
It is so important to express love –
Whether it is a kind word, a loving act, a thoughtful gift, a heartfelt hug or a listening ear
And this does not just apply to family love – it carries over into all areas of love

It is great to express the love you had and will continue to hold onto
However, you will never know the full impact of expressing the love you have – TODAY

LOVE EVERY CHANCE YOU CAN – seizing every opportunity to express love
LOVE BECAUSE YOU CAN – recognizing it is a gift from God to have people to love
LOVE WHILE YOU CAN – understanding there is no greater present like the present

Praying You Have a Blessed Day!
Wishing You Much Love …

“A new command I give you; Love one another.
As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” John 13:34