Happy Monday!
OK – so Monday is just about over
However, that is all the more reason to celebrate –
Those things you might have been worried about yesterday,
or thought you could not face today ... they did not conquer you – you are still standing!
SO – yesterday
I talked about how LOVE SELFLESSLY
PROVIDES
Through that post we understand that this does not mean
that one does not desire things for self. Instead, there are times when LOVE overrides those individual
desires – in exchange for what is best for all
HOWEVER – I would
like provide some additional context for our chat yesterday.
Unfortunately, as a human race, we can be extremists – in
the worst way
This is why it is important to follow-up with today’s
message so that we understand;
WHILE LOVE SELFLESSLY PROVIDES – TRUE LOVE ALSO LOVES BOUNDARIES
YESTERDAY – I talked
about the selfless giving of my middle son.
However, that giving [particularly this past weekend]
came with some much needed counsel
The giving was supplemented with much needed words of
wisdom;
There were pointers given, to caution against being a
doormat for others, to be better positioned for the future
Why? Because love is eternal – and being eternal, it
cannot merely concern itself with today
There is an old
saying,
‘Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day;
Teach a man to
fish, you feed him for a lifetime’
This is what
boundaries do for us –
They provide a framework today for success tomorrow;
Establishing solid and meaningful boundaries is an investment
which yields tremendous dividends
My youngest son
has been sharing in this process of love with boundaries
However – his is from a health standpoint. My eldest son
has done the same in the past.
They are my accountability partners
And – with the
recent passing of my cousin and health concerns with my mom, my youngest has
become very intentional about helping me manage my health. He is demonstrating his love by enacting boundaries and helping me to
establish my own. He checks to make sure I have taken my medication; he
will not share foods with me that he feels will compromise my well-being; and
he has formulated parts of a fitness regime and follows-up to ensure I am
following it daily.
Why? Because LOVE
LOVES BOUNDARIES
Love, true love recognizes the benefit of discipline
Yet, even that is not sufficient
That love – the love which loves boundaries – must be
received and embraced
My middle son made an observation a couple of weeks ago;
He said, ‘It must be very difficult as a parent when you
encounter situations where your children know better than you do.’ I responded
that it is humbling. However, it the most blessed feeling to have one’s
children surpass them in knowledge or wisdom.
Psalm 127:4 notes
that ‘Children are a blessing from the
LORD … Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.’
That is such a
powerful image!
And isn’t that what every parent desires? For their
children to aim higher and go farther.
NEVER LET PRIDE
KEEP YOU FROM EMBRACING A LOVE WHICH LOVES AND ESTABLISHES BOUNDARIES - EVEN IF IT IS FROM
YOUR OWN CHILDREN
Tomorrow, we will delve deeper into the benefits of
boundaries and discipline in
LOVE: LOVES
BOUNDARIES PT II
Then, we will spend a few days talking about BROTHERLY/PHILEO LOVE
And, we will round it all out by moving into EROS LOVE –
We will stay there into next week and through Valentine’s Day
I am truly loving this LOVE JOURNEY
I hope you are as well
Praying You Have a Blessed Evening!
Wishing You Much Love …
‘Whoever ignores instruction despises
himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence’ Proverbs 15:32
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